Network Weaving Begins with Mindfulness: Part 2 with June Holley #ideachat
Pictured above is one part of the Network Weaver Checklist from the new "Network Weaver Handbook" by June Holley.
I think the most important skill for a network weaver is simply to be present with other people. What that means is that people are really listening to each other, they are asking questions that bring intelligence out of a person, and they are thinking about who they can connect that new person to, so that this new twosome--I call them "twosies"--can begin doing something fresh and creative together.
You need to ask questions that get people to recognize that they care about things deeply, and really identify their own strengths and challenges. It's often by identifying the challenges that they can really connect with another person who is complimentary.
Questions provoke people to think in new ways. We don't really realize how small our worlds are, how much we're leaving out, and how vast the world is out there full of different ways of looking at things. It's by really connecting with those differences that we're going to make the breakthroughs that we need.
You have to really think carefully about the different energies, do they use different kinds of language, are their backgrounds different? Especially, as we work globally, this becomes something that people need to pay attention to ... it's not personal, but more cultural.
Closing triangles is so wonderfully simple, and yet so powerful.
What it means is that you are connected to two people who don't know each other, and then, you connect them. Of course, they need to be two people who have something in common. Then those two individuals can then interact without your presence.
There are many ways to close a triangle. The most important thing is that you check up to make sure that the triangle, in fact, has been closed. And if not, why or why not.
Network weavers are always having to notice what's going on, and make sense of what is going on.
Who is being left out? Who will provide a really great perspective on what we're doing and make it work more effectively? Is there enough diversity in the network?
Also, are there quality connections? Are our relationships deep enough? Have we taken the time to know each other, so that we have realistic trust. A network weaver helps us develop these types of relationships, so we can take risks with each other.
In this new world, relationships are going to be more rewarding, more precious, and more valuable to us.


